I was thinking about... forced pressure, real and unalterable pressure, the difference between my anxiety between the two and the reason for that being that I believe I can change or refuse one of them. I'd like to get used to dealing with any pressure.
The best way to do that is to think about the situation from an observant perspective! Even more, a LOGICAL perspective. I must stand back and act like a queen at war. This isn't about worrying-- this is about how the little details make up the big details, which determine lives lost and saved, and determines the fate of the battle, and the fate of 戦争 (war).
There is the kind of worrying that I do because I'm anxious. I'm so anxious that my worry builds up and it is very time consuming, really pretty distracting and absorbing, so to avoid it I stop worrying.
Ha. Well, not worrying is good. But IGNORING your problems is bad. And when I "stop worrying" in order to quit feeling anxious, I give up on even thinking about my problems.
It's a useful skill when there's nothing you can do. In fact, it can really hurt, like my dad, for instance, when you have a problem that is you can't fix, or that you have to wait to fix, or that must fix itself, and you can't stop worrying about it. I mean seriously... that's where grey hair comes from.
Okay, I know it's the lack of melanin or hair color, I read that last week. Anyway :)
So I need to think:
Worrying = bad.
Forgetting or avoiding = bad.
therefore ignoring and procrastination also not recommended.
Analyzing like a logical leader of some kind = good.
Analyzing like a logical princess = good.
Use the royalty comparison if you need to feel confident :)
On my computer I refer to myself as 「姫」 「姫様」 and the like
OKAY!!! ONE MORE THING I almost forgot ^^ I'm so excited.
K, so I made this huge list of emoticon kinds of things. I hope you can see this, but if you can't see weird characters or Japanese on your computer it might not work. Anyway, look at this, can you tell who or what it resembles?
〜〰[ ‹⊚´]
__ミΘ`̪´Θミ
〜(‹⊚´)
ﾐΘ` ̠´Θﾐ
k well, it's not too obvious... this is naruto in sage mode, with the frog eyes, and the squigle is his head-band (?) with the tie blowing in the wind. I tried to recreate the leaf symbol... hahaha... anyway, go ahead and use it if you want! it's so dumb, I know.
If you have Japanese fonts on you computer, it's likely you have a lot of symbols available in "Character Map" which is a program available in you computer's accessories or something. On windows, that is. I don't know what you'll find if you have other fonts instead.
Well, I may as well show you the others! :) Be careful. Sometimes these symbols are meant as strange things that don't actually function as text, but change paragraphs around or go underneath other words. Sometimes I accidentally make all the words type backwards. It's very weird.
ﾐ▴˛˛▴ﾐ
☉☉
◞. .◟
◞._.◟ ⊣␣⊢ >␣<
c_c ¬_¬ ¬̻¬
º̯º º ̯ º ¬ ̠¬
〜〰[ ‹⊚´]
ミΘ`̪´Θミ
ﾐ▴˛˛▴ﾐ ☉☉ ◞. .◟
◞._.◟ ⊣␣⊢ >␣<
c_c ¬̻¬ º̯º º ̯ º
¬ ̠¬ ^̺^ ͡ ̺ ͡
┏_┏ ﾐΘ` ̠´Θﾐ ミΘ ̯ Θミ
ΞﾐΘ_ΘﾐΞ
ﾐ▴˛˛▴ﾐ ﾐ ミ
☉ ☉ ◞. .◟ ◞._.◟ ⊣␣⊢
>␣< c_c ̽̽ ̽
¬_¬ ¬̻ ¬ º̯º º ̯ º
¬ ̠¬ ¬_¬ ¬_¬ ¬ ̠¬
^̺^ ͡ ͡ ͡ ̺ ͡
